Ben Roethlisberger and Terry Bradshaw Take It On: E trade baby fox sports panel; Jordy Nelson scores First!! Superbowl (2)

If you are watching the superbowl, and have
 read the earlier post about sexual assault and terry bradshaw and  Ben Roethlisberger click HERE
then you are
probably interested in this upcoming interview.

                    ETRADE BABY here and

new

etrade baby fox sports panel HERE

Terry Bradshaw interviewed Ben roethlisberger; shown just before gametime. Terry making peace after severely chastising BR (see videos in the earlier post) for his boorish, thuggy, stupid, not OK behavior.
BR tells terry his troules are due to:

he got "all this success thrown at [him]",
"you get treated like a god" by the fans he said, in explaining his "bad behavior" or whatever it is he thinks he is not going to do anymore.
(tb says, "god????" uh,  "you never been booed?") humble up.

Frank C is HILARIOUS.
the chuck and shaq show.
HEEE
his barkley Cracks me up.
Good job winkey!
SHAQ as Trry!!!!!!
AAAAAAAAUKKOK too much.
back shortlyknucklehaid
you can watch franks comedy bits on fox sports. when you try to embed them, they mess up the blog.
frank's picks:http://multimedia.foxsports.com/m/video/36892407/nfl-on-fox-frank-s-tease.htm?r_src=ramp

Fox Panel etrade baby: HERE: http://msn.foxsports.com/video/?vid=12654073-dbe3-49c8-9494-1af77d5753f5

The Walter Payton AWARD GOES TO
Vikings safety Madieu Williams.
HERE IS HIS STORY.

This award shows the NFL at  its best--as it should be.


And, we're off!
back later.


Many-ways-funny pepsi commercial if you are not overly racial-sensitive/
on the other hand:
if you google
superbowl commercials pepsi black couple throw can
you will find some angry or ironic posts about racial stereotypes and political correctness..
Yikes.


Come'On Jordy!
Jordy makes the first score! Jordy Nelson HERE. (collegian article and interview)

jordy Nelson wildcat and packer

e trade baby when he was young

Ben Roethlisberger just had an attack of conscience. i mean, his knee gave out.
Did he just fake a gimp? if so it worked.

A million men just Lusted after Joan Rivers. GO DADDY

HA HAw


OK/ SADNESS.    A SCORE FROM THE DARK SIDE
cOME'ON PACK!

TIME TO PUT ON MY PACKERS HAT

tHE PERFECT HOUSE COMMERCIAL.  lolll
r o f
shades of mean joe green commercial.

must go eat cheese.

What is a Rape Culture? Is Ben Roethlisberger a rapist? Do you know what Rape is?

I have read so much incorrect (or deliberately vile) information in the last few days my head hurts and i want to post more pictures of funny cats and gaze at the stars...
Do you know what a culture that supports rape is? Read a great summary
 HERE: This is What Rape Culture Looks Like.

Do you know that a "really drunk chick" can NOT give legal consent? Teach yourself HERE.

Those in the know (like bodyguards) have no doubt that Kobe Bryant, Ben Roethlisberger, and other big powerful celebrities with lots of money escape justice all the time.

first roethlisberger post here

Recent Roethlisberger post- actual police report here

(while my blog has a lot of various posts about the research/ recognizing the Rapist, please check this link out:
Rapist Research HERE.

GO PACKERS.
my tiny meaningless vote against roethlisberger.

Ben Roethlisberger Gets to Play for the NFL Superbowl Trip; Here is the second Rape Victim's Actual Report to the Milledgeville Police; the 2008 first Case

more at end

ETRADE baby HERE

A man approaches you in a bar       
with his penis out on display--Your friends report
 that the guy's bodyguards will not let let them get to you
while you are being raped in a bathroom--So
 after, you go to the first Police car you see
 to report a rape---
 But, the guy            
-ben Roethlisberger
-is playing
in the championship game today,
quarterbacking for the Steelers who I always liked

 for Coach Bill Cowher's

gorgeous
seriousminded
Popeye face and the long haired Troy Polamalu, making the game exciting, getting Good Air--
Sadly
finding that i am rooting against the steelers
Hard
Considering that Ben Roethlisberger
would appear to any reasonably-minded person
to be a bullying ungallant brute of a man,
who would do things to
 a girl like your daughter
your sister
that will leave you wondering if you really are suppose to go hurt him, somehow...
is ben roethlisberger a rapist?
The court documents from the SECOND case of sexual assault are at the end of the post.
First
though, I want men to tell me
--if we put the Rape charge aside for a moment--

are we all ok, are you men all ok with this behavior
is Ben Roethlisberger the new OK?
Tell Me please!?                

((So you always HEAR

that it is the Team; if the

Team grows and stays together and bonds and self-sacrifices,

Ben Roethlisberger twice
 denies rape charges

Self Sacrifices
victory comes. The big Payoff
You’ve heard it a million times but is it real
What if that
Is in fact the secret?
 When you’ve been there, you might see the truth of it clearly.

Or you might not, if you are a self-centered youngster, a just-- waking- up juvenile, an impaired- vision tadpole who could not see the team effect as, he was preoccupied with looking at himself in the mirror. Or she couldn’t stop looking at the stat book.
And likewise,
What if the way to succeed in life is not to focus on you and your needs and your lusts and your desires and your cravings and your hurts and your grudges and your image
and your Image
but Life Success came as a side effect of Beautiful, humble, gracious, generous, clean, open, truthful power and leadership?
Quiet leadership, active leadership, silent leadership, there are all kinds for all kinds…

And likewise,
What if the best most undeniably perfect way to find and mate with, partner with, learn to love and become a grown up in the world with; complete-- the best woman in the world or the best man for a lifetime


Was
In fact
to be honorable and chaste and powerful and meaningful?
To be a Pure Force on the space in your world. To affect every one around you Up up Up

Not be a cool playah, walkin bad, embarrassing our father if he saw you act withat kind of pridefulness…
Embarrassing your Mother who only lowers her head and wishes you strength and manliness…
I speak as your sister or auntie-
Lusty little randy little billygoat stupid swingin your swagger Shakin yer baking Image management
What a loser…what a Loss to us
And
likewise the way to get rich is not to try to get rich but to do things Right-
What if those really are the secrets and all the “clichés” you’ve heard too many times to take it seriously—

Is the Truth obtained at Great Cost?
(What kind of man do you want to be? When you are 29 or 39 or 50, what are you really?
If you died tomorrow, what do folks say about you?
 Who hurt less in life
   In the hard places

Because of you?

You are ON your trajectory right now.

Your family, your upbringing, your genes, your jeans all went into your trajectory-

But YOU have a say in it now. You can affect your trajectory with your own personal power of

your will and spirit and heart.))

]}

So-
What does our culture need?
How is Ben Roethlisberger a symptom and or consequense of our culture?

Rape charges HERE

All I’m sayin is, All i'm asking about:
What kind of guy; Is Roethlisberger (earlier post here)  actually the Kind of Man who goes into a bar and while a big body guards the door after he pulls or lures or pushed a young girl- he just met that night- into the bathroom and has sex with her?
what kind of guy, dad?
and then,—denies I think for the second time in the past few years that a Rape charge was truthfully leveled aginst him. He is saying,
no, i had legal consent. i acted honorably and legally.


 Some women and men recognize this type of person.

It is hard to report a rape.

See Here

Or Here Or Here Or  Here….

Tell me, men, what is the line?
Where are the masses of american men headed in terms of
what is ok for men to do?
Tell me about honor?
The press media coverage?
BTW,Who gets away with this,
who does not?
CAN THE MEDIA make us forget one man's sins and stone another in a whipped up frenzy of anger?

please tell me
Here is The actual report from the victim (23 pages)
Here is the initial report: click to enlarge

click to enlarge

orlandosentinel.com/sports-2010/04/13-terry-bradshaw-rips-ben-roethlisberger/

http://profootballtalk.nbcsports.com/2010/09/12/terry-bradshaw-if-i-owned-the-steelers-ben-would-be-gone/

Curtis Kelly (K-State Basketball) got a 6 game suspension for accepting clothing from Dillards.
Ben Roethlisberger was also suspended for 6 games. reduced to 4??

music Humor      legal Sadness        Joking about rape

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kobe_Bryant_sexual_assault_case

athletes: a_formula_to_image_restoration.html

Wendy Murphy-law-professor-denounces-payoff-kobe-bryant-rape-case-as-corruption-of-court-system

roesthlisberger's other rape charge yes means yes

The Lines of Human Decency- From Burma's Mad Men to Ben Roethlisberger's Shame (or, " lead all souls to heaven")

Sunday Playoffs: Roethlisberger update HERE.
From Powerful Thugs
that live like kings to little men who think they and their bodyguards can take what they want: I would like to know what average men (e.g., my peers) think about the violence and disregard for other humans.  Update: Aung San Suu Kyi RELEASED !) 

Burma's Mad Men relent-more HERE.

at age 2

(Her name is Aung San Suu Kyi (pronounced Ong San Soo Chee). She was born on June 19, 1945 in Rangoon. Her father, General Aung San, is well known for his involvement in obtaining Burma's independence and his plan for democracy in Burma. He was assassinated on July 19, 1947, along with six other councilor members during an executive council meeting. Suu Kyi was only two years old then. ) more HERE 





 The issue of honor and respect  for the personal sovereignty of each individual is the ultimate question for governments; that issue broken wide open in modern times with the Amercan resolution that we are endowed by a Creator with unquestionable rights. It took some time for intelligence, common sense and emotional factors to recognize this meant ALL humans. Early learning dies hard.

As an advocate for victims of sexual violence, i ponder that The Culture must be considered along with what individual cases can teach us in our desire to address this crime and this shameful dishonorable behavior so prevlaent among our men. If we consider our American Culture, and as i see the headlines each day i want ask:
Men- where do you think the line is? Where is the honor of American men? Do we now allow behavior such as Ben Roethlisberger? How do you define--for example-- sexual consent?
  law:(Consent HERE) 
 Ben Roethlisberger's victim( speaks HERE)
Let's talk about what kind of men
other men think
finally cross the line. 
Let's look into what we accept, what we do not in our culture. Let's compare our culture to others to whom we think we are superior - and to the ideal to which we aspire.
When i ask my students, particularly the males, "do men know when they are being brutish, thuggy, crossing the line, acting badly?" 99% of them answer, YES.

What kind of men do we honor? Who are our models?

That is, among male college students asked in co-ed classes,

"when men "take" or control a woman, when they force sexual interaction, when they push and take and bully a woman until they have taken what they want-- Do They Know they are behaving badly, outside the correct guidelines?"--the college students answer, Yes, they know.

So i would ask Ben R.

-- if (God Forbid) someone acted on your mother or sister or neice or daughter --the way you act on these unknown women--would that be OK with you or would you say, No, they are acting in a way which crossed a line.

Would you say, well, that's ok because she was after all at the bingo parlour and had had several cups of beer.

Who out there knows a man of integrity?

Do you know a man of honor? Your father, a brother, a husband, perhaps a boyfriend or a neighbor-Jimmy Stewart, Santa Claus? A man of honor, integrity, a man who lives in light--

Can you imagine that man

acting as Ben Roethlisberger did?

No.

Normal honorable men do not take an unknown woman who is out having some drinks with her friends and force her into a closet or bathroom and post friends as guards and then commit an act which

when consensual

is one of the most powerful

and consequential acts in existence.

We know the power of an act by its fruits.

The sex act can result in the strange magic of a NEW BEING--

it is not a meaningless act.

So- what is being PUSHED in our culture?

Is Ben Roethlisberger a Rapist?

what is consent?

click to enlarge

what is your culture?

who are your heroes?

 

ben roethlisberger

So who are your heroes??    HERE

Ok-- we are going to go through this one step at a time.

1. if a college woman enters a bar--






Ben Roethlisberger Rape Charges in KC Star--Oh wait was this the first or second set of charges/accusations?

 
Here is what Wendy Murphy has to say:
MAN AVOIDS PROSECUTION FOR SEX ATTACKS USING CULTURAL DEFENSE: “IN MY COUNTRY, THIS IS WHAT MEN DO”.



By Wendy Murphy     June 13, 2010


Regreb Silhteor met Julia Sandberry at an American hotel where he was staying on business. Julia was the hotel manager. After checking in, Silhteor called the front desk and asked Julia to personally deliver a fax to his room. When she arrived, he told her to put it on the desk. As she walked further into the room, Silhteor grabbed her from behind, held her down, and sexually assaulted her while she begged him to stop.


Julia reported the incident and expected Silhtoer to be arrested but eople said it was probably a cultural misunderstanding and that prosecuting Silhtoer would hurt the hotel’s business because Silhteor was a very influential man. Charges were not filed.
A year later, Silhteor was out to dinner with business associates when he noticed a young woman at a nearby table. He sent her several drinks then followed her when she appeared ill and went outside for fresh air. He led her to an isolated area where he raped her despite her incapacitated condition and repeated demands that he stop.




The woman returned to the restaurant and immediately called police who wrote in their report that the woman was visibly intoxicated and incapable of consenting. The woman was taken to a hospital where doctors treated her for injuries consistent with a violent attack. No charges were filed because the victim was drunk and Silhteor, who was a frequent and well-liked customer at the restaurant, said it was consensual.

Silhteor returned home and was asked to give an inspirational talk about the culture of his company to a group of new male employees. The men in the audience eagerly awaited advice from their experienced colleague.

Silhteor began with the basics, telling the men they had been hired by a great company that offered “opportunities for travel, excitement and tremendous wealth. You’ll have lots of women, too; any woman you want because in our country, this is what men do. I never let a woman refuse me”.

A few men looked puzzled.

“It’s not what you think. I never commit a crime because I always make sure the woman can be blamed”. He grinned and added, “One time I had a girl come to my hotel room. I knew nobody would say I attacked her because any woman who goes to a man’s hotel room wants to have sex with him”.
Several men in the audience smiled.


“Another time, a woman was so drunk I just did what I wanted. People in America don’t care about drunk women. I buy them drinks and they don’t realize I’m setting them up”. Silhteor then told his audience he might have to pay the woman a “trivial” sum to stay quiet – but “that’s OK”. “It’s like prostitution”, he explained, “only better, because we can have nice clean women instead of dirty whores on the street”.


A bunch of the men nodded; a few patted each other on the back.
Silhteor summed up his presentation by assuring his rapt audience that it was natural for men do these things. “We have the need and most women will do what we say because of who we are. But it’s good to have a lot of money, too", he smirked, "just in case they don’t”.


The men jumped to their feet applauding wildly - realizing for the first time what it meant to have this great new job.


Now if they could only figure out why a smart NFL quarterback like Regreb Silhteor insisted on spelling his name backwards.



***The underlying facts about what Ben Roethlisberger is accused of doing are essentially true. The imagined conversation he had with NFL rookies is completely made up.